02/17/19… the importance of outcome independence

I’ll be real.

Today I was terrible infield. I did three sets, two rejections and one phone number. I felt like a complete beginner today. I didn’t know what to say, I forgot alot of the inner and outer game concepts I learned, etc. And why? I have no clue.

However… now that I think about it, the more I remember what RSD Max said about not giving a shit if a girl accepts or rejects you. While I didn’t know it at the time, I was invested in how the girls responded to me during my approaches.

I MUST remember one of the most IMPORTANT concepts of game: Be outcome independent. It makes me more relaxed, invest less in the girl, and paradoxically enough, cause her to invest more in ME.

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