On 04/20/21, Tuesday, I decided to meet up with Andy, aka the Horror Movie Girl, at 11:30 during my lunch break. We hit up Stone Creek Coffee and overall, our interaction lasted 1 1/2 hours. Of course, I usually pop up at the date locale 15-20 minutes before my girl arrives. Why? It’s a perfect opportunity to practice your inner game (ie. utilizing the power of now, doing cool or checking out random shit in the moment so your brain doesn’t try self-sabotaging, etc) so you’re mentally prepared for the set.
In all honesty, I think it’s a big reason why I performed so well with Andy.
I had a calm, cool demeanor. I spoke to her in a slow, meaningful tone. I listened to every word she said and responded appropriately based on her response.
With prior experience – and a damn good learning lesson – with Perrine, I ran far better game with Andy.
While I wasn’t able to escalate due to the time constraint (being at lunch), I was able to make her invest and open up within the allotted time I spent with her.
It was a pretty traditional date, to be honest.
If I had to make a list of what I did right with Andy, it’d be:
- Nonverbally Projecting Sexual Intent (As A Grounded Man): By far the biggest success of the date. My tone radiated sexual intent, and I constantly spoke in a slow, cool tone. I didn’t worry about looking good, but instead focused on doing the right things at the right time in the right way.
- No Rush: I knew I was inherently higher value than Andy. I was incredibly chill since our date location was less than 10 minutes away from my apartment, so it wasn’t really an investment. She portrayed herself as this shy girl who didn’t know what she wanted to do in life. I was this confident, well-established guy who already has his dream career.
What did I have to prove to her?